one of them shall commit, or appear to have committed, or be represented in court as having committed, acts constituting a cause of divorce, for the purpose of enabling the other to obtain a divorce. Civil Code Cal. § 114. But it also means connivance or conspiracy in initiating or prosecuting the suit, as where there is a compact for mutual aid in carrying it through to a decree. Beard vy. Beard, 65 Cal. 854, 4 Pac. 229; Pohlman vy. Pohlman, 60 N. J. Eq. 28, 46 Atl. 658;